What types of questions should one ask when interviewing a doula?
LisaMommy is a 38 year old discussion leader for arizonamoms.com from the Paradise Valley/Scottsdale area. Her two boys are ages 8 months and 3 years old.
What types of questions should one ask when interviewing a doula?
LisaMommy is a 38 year old discussion leader for arizonamoms.com from the Paradise Valley/Scottsdale area. Her two boys are ages 8 months and 3 years old.
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I can't speak for everyone,
I can't speak for everyone, but building trust is a biggie with doulas and midwives. We had a great experience having our son at home.
One way to build trust on many levels is simply to ask the doula to walk you through what a "typical" birth experience might be. Her description of what she does may help you understand several things: what to expect from a doula, how she responds/approaches a birth situation, and whether or not you might be comfortable with her overall approach. Another question related to this might be to bring up any "what if?" scenarios you're worried about. Her answers may, again, help her credibility, your comfort level, and provide valuable information when heading into the unknown territory of the next labor situation.
Hope that helps!
I have used a post-partum
I have used a post-partum doula after the birth of one of my children. I especially needed her help because I was concerned about having postpartum depression because I'd experienced it with my previous baby. She helped me tremendously and I was able to avoid PPD.
Doulas can be an invaluable resource in helping parents with newborn babies transition to the home. Ideally, you should decide upon your doula before the birth of your child. That way you can make a more informed decision. Rhonda makes some really great points regarding interview related questions. You might also ask the potential doula, how many families/babies they may have helped, the kind of emergency certifications they hold, how long they have been in the industry, how many kids they have raised etc? I would also ask for references and then contact multiple clients to ask similar questions regarding their experience with the doula. Rhonda is absolutely correct that if you are going to have a doula watch your newborn, you need to trust them! Good luck.
DesertMom
http://ppdsurvivor.blogspot.com
It helps to remember that
It helps to remember that the doula-client relationship is just that, a relationship. First and foremost you need to find someone with whom you feel comfortable. It is a good idea to call several potential doulas, then meet with a few who you think may be a good fit. Ask about training, certification, experience, references, and any issues of particular concern to you. I agree with the previous poster that it's a good idea to have her describe a typical birth experience. But finally, you do need to trust your instincts... there are many wonderful doulas practicing in the valley, you'll know when you find your doula!
Jenny David
Doula, Childbirth Educator, Breastfeeding Counselor
www.valleychildbirth.com