I flashed the pool guy..

#2...until if he gets too comfy down the road then change!

I have had my experiences with unexpected landscapers in the past....Once I screamed in horror and the poor guy looked at me in horror too and never again I saw that man again....oops....

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Sorry but I did get a little chuckle out of this. Chances are good he didn't see you, and if he did, it's not like you were standing at the window waving your towel at him. Make your husband talk to the pool guy to ask about the light. In a few months you'll forget about the whole thing, and maybe there will just be a different pool guy eventually anyway!

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I would go with #2. I bet he wants to act like it didn't happen. If you had made eye contact with him, then you are talking about something else. You were in the privacy of your own house. It is not like you were outside laying by the pool. Just act like it didn't happen.

Can you imagine if you looked up and he had his hands cupped up to the window to get a better look?? Yikes.

Let it go (if you can) and tell your husband to stop teasing you, or you could tease him back and say your next goal is the mailman :)

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I wouldn't worry about it too much, he probably didn't even notice and if he did I'm sure it's not the first time it's happened to him and he's probably seen worst!! Have your husband talk with the pool guy if your not comfortable with doing it.

Imagine all the crazy things pool cleaners and landscapers see, not to mention mail carriers and meter readers. I wouldn't worry about it. Chances are he didn't see you, and if he did, he was a decent enough soul to look away and not look back.

Karina Bland is raising her 9-year-old son in Tempe with a lot of love, humor and support from her friends and family. A longtime journalist covering child welfare and education issues for The Arizona Republic, she blogs about raising good kids.

YOUR CUTE.... THINGS LIKE THIS HAPPEN MORE THEN YOU WOULD THINK. I FLASHED THE PLUMBER YEARS AGO AND I WAS COMPLETELY HUMILIATED. BUT ONE DAY YOU WILL LAUGH ABOUT IT. ITS GOING TO BE ALRIGHT IF ANYTHING YOU SHOULD CALL THE POOL COMPANY AND ASK FOR A DISCOUNT FOR GIVING THEM A PEEP SHOW, IM KIDDING. BUT ON A SERIOUS NOTE, HE HAS PROBABLY SEEN WORST THINGS. IM SURE. JUST LAUGH IT OFF MAYBE NEXT TIME A DIFFERENT GUY WILL COME.

This is the sort of thing you see on a comedy...not to laugh at your mis-hap or anything. But no matter what it was just a mistake and you are both adults and can be adults about it. Just ask him about the pool light, if you are uncomfortable with that just call. I don't think it is worth changing pool companies though if you don't even know if he saw you or not.

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You are so funny! I think to "flash" someone you need to actively remove clothes with the intent of showing someone your stuff. You just were just aggessively cleaning while underdressed :)

This made me think how I wish my old pool guy would do HIS work shirtless... He was so cute and in such beautiful shape. He was the owner of the cleaning company that was getting started and had the nicest arms. He had this great barbed wire tatoo around his tan, muscular bi-cepts and he was always so friendly to my kids...sigh...I miss Andy. It was such a sad day when he said he was going to work the office portion and I was getting a new pool guy, no one since has come close to those bronze arms and winning smile........ oh, sorry, what were we talking about...

Lovemy4 is a discussion leader for North Central Phoenix, tired mother of 4 great kids and wife to one great husband.

Kinda funny. I would not worry about it. I am sure you are not his first!