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happy birthday to me. happy birthday happy birthday, happy birthday to me!
I am 35 years old today and I feel so good.
When I was 20ish 35 seemed to be the starting of "the end", but now that I am hear I see that it is the just the best place to be!
I have gone through so much and changed so much from my teens and 20's, I finally am feeling comfortable with who I am.
I grew up so angry and PO'd and I never knew what it was from until 2 years ago when I found out I had been abused as an 8 year old. No one protected me and I grew up hating my body and myself and pretty much everyone else because of what happened. The kids in my junior high sexually harassed me. At the time it was just called teasing and I am so happy that behavior is no longer acceptable. I picked abusive boyfriends who abused me either mentally or physically until I was 22 years old and had been hurt enough to at least stop making those choices, but I still didn't know were the rage was coming from until I remembered the abuse 2 years ago. I have had the best therapist for over a year now a really good support group and a group that teaches how to cope with anger and deal with it in a healthy way.
I pray every day to continue this journey and believe it or not I wouldn't change it. I am who I am because of my triumphs and hurts.
I'm 35 years old today and man life is good!

bookworm_mom ~ mommy of twins

Good for you! What a triumph

Rybearsmom's picture

Good for you! What a triumph for you! Happy Birthday as well! It is great to see a woman embrace her age instead of lie about it. I think that is beautiful. For your birthday, I wish you continued happiness. I am so very happy for you! Any big plans for the evening?



♥ "LIFE AIN'T ALWAYS BEAUTIFUL, BUT IT'S A BEAUTIFUL RIDE" ♥--Gary Alan

Happy Birthday! What a

Susie's picture

Happy Birthday!
What a journey you've been on....I just finished reading Eat, Pray, Love - about another kind of journey than yours but a difficult journey none the less. You might check it out if you haven't already. It has a lot of lessons for anyone who has had a difficult path but is still walking and surviving. It's an easy read.
Good luck
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Susie is a discussion leader in the east valley for arizonamoms.com. She has two sons, ages 7 and 3.

You're just six days older

not_the_mama's picture

You're just six days older than I am (if we forget about those other 11 years)! Good for you.

I'm having the same kind of year, I also feel like I've turned a corner.

Let's make a pact to get together next year at this time and share all the triumphs.

We're glad God made you,
We're glad God blessed you,
We're so glad you're with us,
We're glad God made you.

(and many more)

Happy Sweet Birthday! I

sdebralh's picture

Happy Sweet Birthday!

I agree. The best years of my life have been my 30's too.
It just keeps getting better with age.

Have a wonderful day. You deserve the best!

Be happy. Thats the best medicine for your enemies.



One Happy Mom in Arizona.

Happy Birthday - wishing you

lisamommy's picture

Happy Birthday - wishing you all the best in the years to come. It really is a wonderful milestone! It only gets better. :)



LisaMommy is a 38 year old discussion leader for arizonamoms.com from the Paradise Valley/Scottsdale area. Her two boys are ages 9 months and 3 years old.

Happy Happy Birthday! ♥

azmommyof4's picture

Happy Happy Birthday! ♥



Jennifer is a discussion leader for arizonamoms.com and mommy to four beautiful girls who range from 9 to 4 years of age.

Happy Birthday!!!

jesshod's picture

Happy Birthday!!!



jesshod is a mommy to 2 girls (ages 6 and 1) and is an arizonamoms.com discussion leader living in Surprise.

Happy, Happy Birthday!

mouse_tales's picture

Happy, Happy Birthday! Wonderful wishes for happiness and joy in the coming year!!



Mouse_tales is a discussion leader in the East Valley for arizonamoms.com. She spends most of her days juggling her duties as a (bio & step) mom, wife, and business owner. Her three little kittens range in age from 5 to 13.

AHHHH.... Thanks ladies.

bookworm_mom's picture

AHHHH.... Thanks ladies. Support means so much to me and I really do appreciate your comments and thoughts for me.



bookworm_mom ~ mommy of twins

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